Dating with respect

“Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever?” 2 Corinthians 6:14-15 Before we start this post I need to do a…

Christian Chat up lines – 2013 edition

Today being Valentine’s Day it would be the done thing for respectable Christian blogs to post inspiring reflections on 1 Corinthians 13, reminisce about the joys of relationships or write about how we should be remembering the True Love Jesus showed on the cross. Here at All4God on the other hand we are going with…

Purity, sex and buttons

A while back I was talking to a friend of mine, we’ll call her Taylor, and the subject of our future wedding nights came up. She was saying how she wanted a wedding dress with lots of buttons down the back. She had always had two romantic notions about her wedding night; one that she…

Real men

Something that has really struck me this summer is how so few men actually merit the label “men”. So many guys are just immature, foolish boys going around thinking they are a big deal because they can drink legally. Newsflash – getting drunk doesn’t make you a man. Having sex doesn’t make you a man.…

What Girls want (Valentine's thoughts)

{Time to inorduce a new contributor, Carissa, a politics student from Liberty University Virginia and former arts and craft director at Beaver Cross camp} A while ago I was asked to write a guest post for All4God. At the time, I didn’t feel as though I had anything worth writing about, and I prayed about…

Just friends?

I was at a party one night and different people were performing on stage. I can still remember the room was dark and I was sitting on a couch next to my friend when two guys strolled onto the stage. The shorter one had chestnut hair, green eyes, and a contagiously flashy smile. The way…

After the heartache

{Apologies for the delay in posting this final part of our Relationships:God intended steak series – I was debating over stuff like how personally revealung to be in it} Unless you are one of those lucky few people who manages to find their perfect, God-intended partner first time and marries their only boyfriend/girlfriend, an inevitable…

The perfect 10 doesn't exist

“People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7 I’m sure I’m not the only one who has at some point indulged with some friends in the game of rating members of the opposite sex on a scale of 1 to 10 based on looks. And obviously that is wrong,…

Fast food in a nice box

An observation that most guys make early on in life is that girls look good. And while that is true, and there is nothing wrong with noticing that a member of the opposite sex is pretty stunning, as we seek mature, Christ-honouring relationships with the fine steak God has planned for us we need to…

Holy Spirit Room

When I was working at a Christian summer camp over the summer one of the issues we faced during high school weeks was that some of the campers would be in relationships with each other. And while that was ok, we didn’t want it being a distraction, to them or to others. And we definitely…